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These are the things every parent

deserves to know.


We've both watched kind, loving parents go to their frustrated child, wanting nothing more than to be there for them, and cringed when we heard the well intended words come out of their mouths...

Not because they did something "wrong" or "bad." We just knew from years of teaching toddlers and preschoolers just what they were in for after saying that particular sentence... and it wasn't going to be pretty!

If only we could have whispered in their ears, "Try this instead..." we could have saved those parents from unwanted power struggles, meltdowns, tantrums, or scream-a-thons. We could have told them instead what would be easier, faster, and end with everybody happier in the end...

...all with the switch of a few words or a moment's pause.


Finally, someone is going to give you exactly that.

We're going to whisper in your ear and share our teacher secrets with you so you can steer clear of those unnecessary headaches and heartaches that parenthood doesn't have to have.

Get more or what you want and a whole lot less of what you don't.

Break down barriers.

Debunk the common parenting strategies that have likely been setting your kid off instead of helping them. Instead of getting pushed away, you can be there for them instead.




Not just compliance, teamwork.

Kids can - and want to - do important things and be a contributing part of the family, but knowing how to successfully tap into this natural inclination is what leads to more listening, cooperation, and pitching in (for the whole family).


Enjoy more precious moments.

Spend more of your time enjoying parenthood the way you always imagined it. Knowing what makes your kid tick helps you help them faster, easier, and get back to laughing and playing instead!

Testimonial from Kat, mom to James




"What I love about this course is it helped me make simple, minor tweaks to my parenting - but those tweaks had major impact!

Several of the strategies shared in this course helped me improve the dynamics in our family's relationships. But more importantly, it taught me a framework for reflecting on toddler struggles. The format of the course is genius and has taught me how to pause, reflect, and explore: what's going on with my kid developmentally? What's going on with me as a parent? How can I adjust my strategies so both of us can thrive?

Even though there are still challenging moments, we are better equipped to handle them together and grow from them. I'm so grateful for what this course taught me as a parent and as a person."


Testimonial from Tiffany, mom to Everly

"​This course helped me feel like I speak the same language as my child. Afterwards it seemed like she was respecting me more, like it was less of a confrontation and a negotiation, and I was having more fun!"

Example Curriculum

  Welcome to Say This, Not That
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  Lesson 1: Realistic Expectations
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  Lesson 2: Predictability
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  Lesson 3: Feelings
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  Lesson 4: Freedom and Control
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  Course Conclusion
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  Bonus: Mindset Reset - Falling in love with ourselves
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Ready for the parenthood you envisioned?

Testimonial from Tiffany - mom to 3 year old Everly